My French Country Home by Sharon Santoni

Monday, 26 March 2012

what did we do before blogging?!!





This week I introduced a girlfriend to the world of blogging.   Just like me a couple of years ago, she had never visited a blog ...  she didn't understand what they were about.... or why she would read one ......

It didn't take long for her to be hooked!

I set up some links on her computer, explained to her the basics, introduced her to my favourites and then left her to it.  The real fun, after all, is finding your own way around.


I bumped into her again at the end of the week and could hardly get a word in; she had so much to say "do you know this one?  did you see what that girl did in Australia?   I love that German lady's pictures...."

I smiled and nodded wisely,  enjoying her pleasure, and then she threw it at me ... "these people are so talented, but what were they doing before blogging?!!"   

"Um,, euh ... duh ...." .....  I couldn't answer!



We take it for granted today that we can run our own little blogs.  Our place to share, to shout our joys, to whisper our pleasures,  and sometimes our fears.

Some are good with a camera, others work magic with words, some show us their homes, others their take on fashion.  It feels like each blogger is running their own magazine where they are the editor, photographer, journalist, marketing manager and chief coffee maker.




The readers who stop by make it all worth while.  Those that leave comments  are taking an active role, and those who just read silently also contribute their share of statistics and 'hits'; so gratifying to every blogger.

So what did we do before the dawn of blogs?   We worked of course, we cared for our families, we enjoyed and embellished our homes, but how did we share all that? Or didn't we need to?


 What has blogging replaced?  Where did this need to show and tell come from?  How much of the enjoyment is pure voyeurism?  To someone like myself, who lives quietly in a small village, blogging has totally changed my horizon.  From this computer in the middle of nowhere, I have the privilege of reaching thousands of people.




When I take pictures of the valley, I procure real pleasure because I love the countryside here, and  everyday beauty thrills me.  That pleasure is heightened through sharing.  It isn't showing off, simply increasing enjoyment by letting others enjoy the same stuff.

A new thing is happening too with e-magazines.  Many bloggers feel confident enough to create monthly or two-monthly magazines, filled with fantastic pictures and great information.  Would they have ever done that without the trampoline of a blog?



Not long from now, and probably already, sociologists will be teaching classes on 'the dawn of blogging and how it changed (the role of women in) society' .......

 I don't really have the answers here, but I'd love to know what you think.   Whether you have your own blog, or whether you read other blogs, or both, you are probably spending some time in front of a screen.  Where have you taken this time from?   How has the growth of the blogging community changed your everyday life?






A lot of questions for a Sunday - forgive me!

Here the sun is bright, the day is shorter since we went on to summer time
 during the night, so I must get busy!  :)
Thank you for reading me, and thank you for your wonderful comments 
which inspire me to continue blogging



PS.  Thank you to Bob (one of my very favourite commenters!) , in the comment below, and to whom I cannot reply because his email address doesn't show.   A big thank you to my men readers, I am lucky to have you stop by!   Sorry if I sound like I am talking to women only.  I'm not, but it is true today that most of the blogs I read are written by women.  Here however is a shout out for my favourite 'masculine' blogs and sites

All Things Ruffnerian
David Terry Fine Art 
David McGrievey Illustration
The Sartorialist




89 comments:

  1. Congratulations again. And thank you for begining blog project...and making it

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  2. Is blogging really just women? As a male reader, I would have to disagree. I've read your musing for what seems like forever. You transport me to where I can not go daily. I am eternally grateful to you for your role in making my day better. For those of us severely ill or disabled, bloggers play a vital role connecting us to the world in a way television can never do. Thanks Sharon, and thanks to all the bloggers worldwide!

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    1. Thank you Bob, I added a 'PS' for your attention. I have always appreciated your pertinent comments, and your occasional reprimand ! :)
      I love that you say that blogs bring a connection impossible via TV - very interesting.
      warmest wishes
      Sharon

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  3. I always think about why I keep going. And I recently thought about it like this.

    I used to take so much pleasure in arriving at playgroup with a plate of homemade something that the mums and kids loved and oooooed and aahhhhed over. Now I can make these offerings on the internet not just reaching of few of the mums in my suburb, but rather thousands of them around the planet.

    Funnily enough some of those local mums read me these days and love what I am doing.

    The feed back via comments and stats is definitely a great motivator.

    Carolyn

    PS I think Bobs comment above is so inspiring and you can really be happy that you improve his day. What an honour Sharon!!!!

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    1. You are so right Carolyn, it is an honour! Cakes by internet ...hmmm, I think ... fewer calories :)

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  4. I can't say for everyone, but before blogging I spent a lifetime's fortune on magazines.

    To get ideas, to inspire me, to let me know what's going on in the world of home fashion...and it was never EVER enough.

    BLOGGING has changed my life because I find exactly what I want without killing a tree or wasting my money or wasting my time with too much nonesense not applicable to my tastes.

    And, through blogging I get incredibly satisfied, actually GORGING my eyes on things I love but, for various reasons, will never have.

    Like a French Country home............I live vicariouisly through your travels and yours eyes and heart, and feel satisfied.

    With blogging we can finally, for once actually GET ENOUGH.

    And that is savory, indeed.

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    1. How amazing Michele that blogging satisfies your every craving, thank you for including MFCH in your readings

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  5. You are so very inspiring. Thank you for sharing.
    ~Clara

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  6. Because blogging is time consuming I keep thinking after a couple of years it's time to stop. But then someone like Bob comes along and makes blogging so worth the time and effort. Let alone all the friendships I've made along the way. I think I keep blogging because of these friendships and being able to share my little corner of the world.

    I hope you're enjoying your weekend!
    XX
    Debra~

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    1. Hi Debra, I agree totally with every point you make. But look, I would never have known about your beautiful cushions if you didn't blog!
      best
      Sharon
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  7. Its an odd thing this blogging world - it seems to be different things to different people. I have enjoyed the fellow bloggers I converse with around the world and it has given me an outlet to share my passion of cooking. I visit your blog and relish in the beautiful photos. Thank you.

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    1. Thank you for this, you are right, different things to different people. Thak you for your kind words

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  8. You said it all. A friend told me this weekdne she reads my blog every day. Never comments but love it because we always seem happy. I think that is the purpose of most blogs, to lift people up and out of their worlds for a short time. Why wouldn't I be happy? There is so much beauty and joy to share. Sure, I'm not happy all the time but I dont want to get into politics and issues. You are an artist, I am, too. xo Jenny

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    1. Thank you so much for caling ma an artist Jenny, I am beyond flattered!
      Sharon
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  9. So interesting.....I don't know that blogging replaced anything, it just added A LOT to my life. I am a blogger and one who enjoys reading blogs too. It consumes hours of my day but its almost like an online education...I learn so much and get to "visit " my friends in other countries and learn more about them and what goes on in other parts of the world amongst so much else. For me it fills a great creative void and allows me a voice and its so valdidating to konw there are many who care to listen. Its a special and unique community and I can relate to the euphoria your friend is going through I remember just a little over a year ago I had also started a blog and it was so ridiculously addicting, I still love it as much but now I am regimented and more disciplined! Great topic......

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    1. I think I agree Tina, that blogging has added rather than replaced. Although I have to admit that my garden was in better shape before the blogging days began! :)
      xx

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  10. Thank you for sharing your real life adventures. I agree with Bob, and what others have commented here. I love the opportunity to travel and experience - on so many different levels!

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  11. I don't know that blogging has replaced anything in my life but rather added to it. I don't post on my blog every day but after a few days I find that I'm missing it. I don't even have many followers and posts go by with no comments. I don't even check "statistics".

    But first thing every morning I sit with my coffee and peruse all my blogs. Some have ideas that I just love. Some live in places that I would love to be. I have my own dreams but am not sure if they will ever come true. Blogs give me hope that day by day I can keep going towards those dreams in small baby steps. And I find blogs to be satisfying, comforting and encouraging. A nice way to start my day.

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    1. Good for you for not checking statistics - they can become addictive!!

      I love that blogs help you dream

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  12. Silly me ...sitting here crying as I read Sharon's post and Bob's response! Blogging provides friends at a level I would never have otherwise. I read things that put my own feelings into words I could never have found. I have found that you can tell alot about people from reading their blogs - Sharon comes across as a special person you would want as a best friend. So lucky me gets to have her as a friend and live in France all at the same time! Karen

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    1. Oh dear, Karen, I didn't want to make you cry, and neither did Bob, I am sure!
      Your words are more than kind, thank you very much
      xx

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  13. Four years ago I had an adorable baby boy who has special needs. His health has been delicate so he and of course me aswell have been pretty much housebound for these years though thankfully his health is improving and he is going from strength to strength. But as Bob says when you are confined to the home, the internet is your connection to the world and home and garden bloggers kept me sane especially in the early days. Before I used to consume numerous magazines but found blogs to be 'warmer', personal and more 'real'. Now my baby is doing so well I have more time on my hands and have started blogging aswell - to give the love back! I love your blog Sharon and this post has some very interesting questions.

    Sharon

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    1. Thank you Sharon, I am sure that being housebound with a special baby to care for has not always been easy for you. Thank you for your regular comments

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  14. I've been blogging for almost 8 years now. Before that, I was an active member of an online community related to my cross-stitching; that was kind of like blogging, but more interactive. I still belong to the community, but don't spend as much time there.

    Before the internet, I spent way more of my leisure time stitching. I still stitch, which is why I started my blog in the first place (to show off my stitching), but my blogging (and reading other blogs) has taken me off into other directions, so although I still stitch, I find I have to share my stitching time with my blogging time, and that's okay.

    Have a wonderful Sunday!

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  15. I work from home and spend most of the day alone. I get lonely, so I find bloggers are my co-workers. I stop for a coffee and read a few blogs and chat and also at lunch. It gives me a connection I miss not being in the workplace.

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    1. HI Chania, I like that idea that we bloggers are your 'collègues de travail', your workmates :)

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  16. I am fairly new at this blogging thing, I started one while we were on a sailing adventure for 7 months and then when we got home, with our sons doing most of the work on the farm, I didn't want to just twiddle my thumbs so I started this one. I love my home and my gardening so much, I guess I just want to share these things with whoever might want to "drop by" for a visit!
    Than you for sharing your beautiful life and country side with everyone!
    kim

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    1. Thank you Kim, blogging is about sharing first and foremost

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  17. Bonjour Sharon. You do raise very interesting questions here. I have been blogging for a little over a year, and I can't imagine stopping anytime soon (even though Blogger has driven me crazy lately!) A French expat in the United States, I follow your blog with great pleasure. Your stories are creative, and diverse. You also stay away from some of the stereotypes about the French and their lifestyle I find in other blogs. Keep up the good work! Amicalement, from Seattle. Veronique

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    1. Bonjour Veronique

      Je suis très flattée que tu apprécies ma façon de décrire et de montrer tes compatriotes, merci!

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  18. Hi Sharon!
    For me...it's all about the connections...the kindred spirits...and the sharing! I have met so many wonderful people...both women and men from all over the world. Some of them I have even had the pleasure to meet in person...hoping some day I will get to meet and spend time with you too!
    :)

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    1. Laura, I would be over the moon to meet you one day, just think how much fun we would have treasure hunting together! :)

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  19. Like most of the others, blogging just happened to me. I agree with everyone, it's theraputic, it's our social life on another level, and it's re-validating. The various things women around the world are interested in are amazing to me. The huge talent of these women is also amazing. Just think what we would be missing...it would be awful. Also, I don't purchase nearly so many magazine, which now I find outdated by the time they are printed because of the speed of the www. For me, it's now a necessity because there are so many of you I care about and cannot imagine visiting a few times a week. You are my girlfriends just the same as my real-life girlfriends. Great post, Sharon. Really wonderful. xx's

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    1. The warmth of your comment Marsha is exactly the spirit that comes through in your blog, thank you for counting me in your girlfriends

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  20. At its best blogging gives a voice and outlet to many of us that would not otherwise be available. There are times when posting pushes against other things and I have learned to just say okay...it will be there tomorrow. I love knowing that people gain a glimpse of something inspiring via comments, but am just as pleased when I create a post that makes me happy.
    Great and string of comments!

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    1. "A post that makes you happy" YES!! And do you get the grumps like me if you think you've written a post that isn't as good as you wanted?

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  21. Lovely and thoughtful, and perfect for Sunday musing! I started blogging to assist in my healing after a brain injury. Sitting at my computer everyday has been a reminder of the power of our minds, as I witness (and try to participate) in this form of limitless and inspiring creativity. After my injury, typing was a function that I had lost. Blogging has been the perfect therapy to help re-engage my intellect, and re-boot my brain in ways that I had previously taken for granted. The bonus is having exposure to such amazing individuals who continue....like a great teacher...to challenge and inspire.

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    1. I canno think of a better incentive to type Brendam! Thank you for sharing yor point of view

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  22. I don't think I can even remember why or what blogging replaced...more than likely a void of time where I sat and did nothing. Because of blogging, my creativity is exploding! Things I once thought about I'm now doing with the encouragement of others and visiting others blogs.

    I have met so many wonderful people through blogging, people I would have never had the opportunity to meet otherwise. Any time you can write something that in some way inspires or encourages another is well worth the time spent.

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    1. Now THAT is a tribute to blogging : Because of blogging, my creativity is exploding!

      WOW Kris, well done!

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  23. I don't have a blog. In my dotage, mostly housebound, I wouldn't have much to share. Reading other's blogs opens the world again. I can feast my eyes on the colors in lovely photographs, travel to places I always wanted to visit and didn't, learn about different lifestyles and fill the hours of the day with satisfying activity. My iPad needs frequent recharging, thanks to all the interesting bloggers out there!
    Ann

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    1. Thank you for sharing the viewpoint of a blog reader, have a great week

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  24. Most of us who blog are addicted to it, and it does provide a beautiful window to a bigger world than we ever imagined. I couldn't have blogged during my working days, though. Thank God I'm retired.

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  25. Sharon, what a wonderful post. I stumbled upon your blog almost a year ago. I was and continue to be a true fan. MFCH has allowed me a glimpse into your life and life in a French village, something that without blogs I would not experience- short of moving there myself. You & MFCH are directly responsible for me creating my little blog approx 9 months ago. Why did I create mine? The creative freedom with no pressure - the interaction with people around the world and a stage for wonderfully civilized exchange of ideas- all on my schedule. I thank you, figuratively, each time I write, read or comment on a blog, for exposing me to the always inspiring worldwide neighborhood of blogs. Merci ~Jen

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  26. Wow...so many beautiful comments on this thoughtful post....I can't comment any longer...little Giovanni is calling for me and, even I am an active and addicted ;-))) blogger I can't sacrifice baby time!!

    You' re totally right Sharon: this blog experience has opened a new wonderful world of beauty and opened my mind as well!
    I will be always grateful to blogland!

    Gotta go

    Fra

    Fra

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  27. Hi Sharon,

    Your thoughts today are exactly what I've been contemplating for a while now. That is, to pluck up the courage to start my own little blog about house and home and design and the thought for the day. Discovering blogs about a year ago, I am now happily addicted! Referring to some earlier comments, yours included, I too, live in a charming little village (on the island of Crete), am a Canadian ex-pat English tutor who spends most of the day alone, (nod to Razmataz) who terribly misses her family and friends and depends on very talented bloggers to keep me entertained (they always do!)and connected to the things I love. Like Michele, I must have spent half my income on American, English and French decorating magazines for inspiration when we were building our country home, so to 'suddenly' be able to have access to such amazing presentations and information is utterly fantastic! I'm very very grateful for all those gals (and guys)who share my passion and their wisdom. Wish me luck!

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    1. Poppy, just be sure to let us know when you get your blog up and running, I'll put it on my blogroll!

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  29. nostalgic, beautiful images. thank you. thoughtful ponderings. before i was blogging, i was neither horse-back riding, nor visiting in a landau :-). probably blogging took the place of much classics-reading and lots of cooking just for fun. with my own blog and in my blogroll, i've created my dream-world in which i revel, and i soak it in, then run and work to create it in my home and in the "real" world around me. it has raised and inspired me, and my cheer raises those with whom i come in contact. it's a gift, and then some.

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  30. Thank you Ann, "it has raised and inspired me", great words, great comment, bonne semaine!

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  31. Blogging is an outlet for socialization for me, as I live in a remote area and don't have any friends to speak of. It really is a fascinating world.

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    1. I agree, blogging can put you into contact with so many people, no matter where you live.

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  32. i do agree with all comments before, not much to add really! One thing for me was to see that i am not crazy or alone with my hobby and love for miniatures! Have "met" wonderful, caring, interesting people from all over the world and wouldn't want to miss that! As others already said, to a person who can't move around much (due to medical issues)-which i am ,too, blogging is sort of life-saving/ mind-saving/ ...just making your day! it is thearapeutic, too, as one can forget about one's own troubles for a while (or hours..:)!! I was quite moved by your text ,too...made me think and realize, that perhaps the most important of all about blogging is that through meeting all these people there is a huge sign of - how to say it- HOPE? That the world and its people from all around the globe DO CARE a lot about each other, love to share, love to learn, support each other, teach each other and try to be more positive in many ways!Thanks for bringing up the subject! best greetings, Anne

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    1. Thank you Anne, I think you're right, that we enjoy showing that we care - so important in today's brutal world

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  33. Blogging has allowed me to make contact with an eclectic group of people - those who share similar interests, those who inspire me, and others whom I admire for various reasons. For me it has created a global network of wonderful friends.............at the expense of the house work and my exercise routine. I definitely need more willpower! I have hit a hiatus - my professional job and home are demanding a greater share of my time so apologies for not leaving many comments over the last month or so.
    Bonne semaine.

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    1. Thank you Elizabth, don't apologise, although I love to read your comments. I could also do with a little more will power.

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  34. I've been blogging for a little over two years. What a great way to inspire and be inspired by so many talented, creative and open individuals who have many of the same interests. It also provides the opportunity to see and visit far-away places that we mght not otherwise get to enjoy. I LOVE visiting you here, since I most likely will never get to France to see it first hand. You share the most beautiful photos and your posts are written in such an open and friendly way. I'll be back again and again. Thank you so much for sharing where you live and you're welcome to visit me anytime! Enjoy your Sunday. :)

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  35. For a beginner, I am hooked...I have this new bunch of friends that share their art, inspirations, design and pictures...so, much fun.
    Speaking of which...if you have been following...our bathroom is done, really, done....
    http://wildoakdesigns.blogspot.com
    Thanks for your wonderful posts...
    Nancy

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    1. Thank you Nancy, I'll pop over to see your bathroom

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  36. What a lovely and thoughtful post. I'm a stay at home mom trying to make a go of a jewelry line so the different blogs I read provide so much inspiration and company to me. Being at home a lot can be daunting but I feel less alone thanks to the different bloggers. Everytime i have a spare minute, I find myself checking what the others are saying or doing or better yet their pictures! I especially love those you share! I can't say that blogging has replaced something but I agree with one of the commenters that it has greatly enriched my life. Its funny to write something and have people read it. I don't have a lot of time to blog (one of the hazards of being a mom, I suppose) but I miss it when I've been away too long.And I love how supportive people are of each other. That's such a boost!

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    1. Yes, I don't think I would have had time to blog when the children were small - to each age its pleasures!

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  37. Hi Sharon,
    I have been reading your blog for several months and find it to be informative and interesting and thoughtful. You live in a beautiful place! I have been blogging for a couple of years now, after my husband died I found I had too much free time and needed to fill it. I am still hoping to make some friends out there and connect with people; it has taken me awhile to figure out exactly how it all works. Keep doing what you're doing, I thoroughly enjoy seeing France through your eyes.
    Paige

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  38. Sharon,
    I do not blog...yet. But I draw inspiration from other blogs. I've tried new decorating techniques for my home and new recipes. I've read books I would never have heard of if it weren't for blogs. Your blog lets me visit a part of France that I've not been to. Maybe some day I'll get there in person but for now your blog gets me there in spirit.

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  39. My daughter Ryan at "The Blooming Thread" introduced me to blogging and I just celebrated my 1 year anniversary. I'm still learning so much and with our her help I wouldn't as far as I am now, and yet I have so much more to learn. What I do enjoy is looking at your blog and also as Sharon commented, "enjoying France through your eyes". I will visit again and again. Thank you.

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  40. I love your blog! And you are excellent at both photography and writing. France is one of my favorite places i've never visited, (but hope to someday soon!) That is one of my fav things about blogging.. being able to share with so many from faraway places! To learn about their lives and things and people they love. I just began a little blog last July. It's not much, but i love it! I have a lot to learn, but it's such a wonderful pleasure this blogging thing! And i wonder, why on earth did it take me so long to start?! :)

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  41. Such a thoughtful post. Reading blogs and writing one is amazing! I have made some great connections with talented people that I would have never known otherwise.

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  42. Before blogging I certainly spent more time on my feet than on my tush! lol! Seriously, though....through blogging, new friendships all over the world has grown incredibly. I've reached out across land and ocean to talk and share with gals and see where they live. Something I never could do without blogging. It's a sheer blessing to me!

    xoxo laurie

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  43. Thank you so much for brightening my day - your pleasure in your surroundings and your way of life strike a chord in me. Your beautiful images certainly lift my spirits and brighten my day. I wonder how I got through my day before stumbling upon some beautiful blogs over 16 months ago. Thank you for sharing your home and life with us.
    cheers,
    Karen

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  44. What a greta topic and one that I constantly ponder. My daughter began her blog 6 years ago and at first found it quite confronting reading so much about her personal life for all to read ( she's quite "out there" sometimes)and have had to defend her right to blog to family and friends...I now have accepted it and truly believe that it is her blog that has helped her get through the past 5 years of raising 2 children...it is her virtual playgroup.
    Apart from saving me thousands on magazines, I have derived so much joy from being able to write comments and see them published and acknowledged, in itself a very validating and rewarding experience. Sorry for " waffling" Sharon, but I am SO grateful to you and countless other bloggers for giving,and enriching me each and every day of my life. You take me to a place daily I know I can't get to physically, but feel very privelaged to be invited nontheless....you are very generous in your sharing, and we are all the better for it!!!

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  45. Sharon, your blog was one of my first finds when I decided to see what this unknown world was all about around this time last year. I was instantly inspired by learning of your French lifestyle and your beautiful surroundings not to mention your brocante finds. The majority of the blogs I looked at were from your following list. I was so taken with the venue that I too began my little blog just a few months later. I love the interaction and sharing of thoughts and ideas between the worldwide blogging neighborhood. The joy of posting about things that are dear to our hearts with no agenda, just passion, makes the blog world a place like no other I have experienced. I thank you Sharon for your devotion to MFCH and for providing ongoing inspiration to me. Merci, ~Jen

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  46. Sharon, what an excellent post. What did I do before blogging? I read a lot and I do miss that, I mean books of course. Now I am traveling the blog world; reading, commenting, supporting the arts and artists on my site....giving back, paying it forward.

    I truly believe that even more than the world wide web, bloggers have opened the unique communication between millions of people of varied interests who would never have met or talked.

    I hope you will come and see the feature I have on an amazing sculptor.

    xoxo
    Karena
    Art by Karena
    The 2012 Artist Series

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  47. I may never have the opportunity to see France except through your eyes. You've opened a door in the hedge for me to walk through. Visiting a place with my camera and guidebook is one thing; being invited into your home is a much richer experience. Thank you for your grace.
    I was told once that writers should keep journals, but I never developed a taste for it. I'm a fledgling blogger, but it seems to suit my need for expression. I write instead of watching television and instead of feeling like time wasted, it feels like time redeemed.

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  48. I love to see the beauty, others ideas, I get truly inspired and it helps me get through some insomnia from time to time

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  49. I began blogging when I was burning-out and breaking
    I thought I was chronicling my new life in Brittany, six years later I realise that I am still trying to make sense of my life
    It is wonderfully cathartic

    and it is so nice to share the lives of others, albeit virtually

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  50. yes, blogging is very rewarding activity.....i do it for self expression and love all the comments and views of the fellow bloggers/readers!!

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  51. Dear Sharon (and I hope this isn't getting posted twice),

    Just for the record?....I'd never heard the term "blogging" until about six or seven years ago, when I was at a VERY longlasting, large, and remarkably boozy afternoon-party at a longtime friend's house. It was a very, very hot day. Around 8 pm, I'd gotten myself out to the back porch (and was seriously considering whether I'd, for the first time in years, had too much bourbon) when my friend's daughter (who's read or heard most of the massive correspondence between her mother and me over twenty years) came up to me and announced "Have you thought of blogging?".

    I was feeling pretty green, actually, but I didn't think it SHOWED. So, I said "Excuse me?", and she said "I think you need to blog...it'd be good for you".

    I assumed that "blogging" was some new-fangled variant on "upchuck", so I said "Oh...I'll be just fine. What I REALLY need to do is to just eat something." We had a further, ridiculous exchange during which she kept telling me how much she enjoyed "blogging", etcetera....and I kept insisting that it just wasn't the sort of thing I did, even when the hostess's daughter recommended it, etcetera. I never asked what "blogging" was, and she never said anything particularly specific about it, beyond how much "fun" it was...how all of her best friends did it, etcetera.

    I eventually excused myself and went upstairs, wondering whether I should tell my friend that her daughter was an evangelical bulimic.

    The next morning, she brought up the topic again, and I bothered to ask "What ARE you talking about... 'blogging'?". I was very relieved to have my previous assumption corrected.

    Level Best as Ever,

    David Terry
    www.davidterryart.com

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  52. This is my first comment here, I say that because I have read the thoughtful comment of another Bob. He and all the other commentators have described the advantages of writing or reading a blog in such a good way. While I was reading all this great ideas one thing came to my mind: The method of blogging and commenting makes it posible to combine the views of the author and the readers which is really new and most valuable! Thank you all for sharing your ideas. And I thank Selena for giving me the link to this post.

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  53. Wonderful blog and interesting questions. I am very new to blogging, both reading and writing my own. I got started because I lost my job. It was a job I loved dearly and I went through months of depression and weight gain over the loss of something I was so passionate about. Like you, a friend of mine introduced me to blogging after I shared a letter with her that I had written while camping. She liked my style of writing and helped me get started on a blog. It has empowered me! I don't feel like the woman who was unappreciated and let go because I didn't fit into the Good Ole Boys network. I feel like I finally have a voice, and hope that eventually I will have many readers who like what I have to say. For me, blogging has not just replaced something, it has helped me feel like I'm not invisible anymore. Men, women, teenagers, everyone has a voice; the new world of blogging lets anyone share their ideas and dreams. Don't we all just want to be heard? Thanks for listening!

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  54. Oh, "Kiki D"....not to go too thoroughly skool-marmy on you, but?....you HAVE to introduce yourself to Dominique Browning's "Slow Love Life" blog. she is speaking to folks who are precisely in your situation (trust me....she's been thrown into it, found herself under it, and swam her way out of it...mostly by virtue of writing a book about the subject and beginning a blog about the matter).

    I think you would greatly appreciate both the blog and the book. go to:

    http://www.slowlovelife.com/

    I should emphasize (as Dominique does, herself) that she initially resisted the notion of "blogging".

    Best wishes,

    David Terry
    www.davidterryart.com

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  55. Sharon,
    I confess I used to watch TV with several shelter magazines in my lap. Interior design and homes have always been a passion...blogging allows me to post my favorite room ideas and assemble examples of my favorite furnishings all in one post. It's a creative outlet and, when the occasional comment comes, I'm downright giddy.
    Your blog shows me a part of the world I wouldn't otherwise see, so thank you!
    Karen

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  56. Sharon,
    I love the internet and the blog world. I think the reply above from David Terry to Kiki D shows the value of the connections we make thru this medium.
    I started to blog to keep a record for my family of our new house and to have a place for some of the many photos I take. I read blogs for the wide world of interesting things and the amazing creative people and ideas that are out there. It reminds me of the old on paper card catalogs in the library. I'd start the hunt for some book and get sucked into a trail of other interesting things as I flipped through the cards. Same thing with blog rolls. One leads to another. I've "met" so many interesting folks, some in person, some just on line, and get a glimpse of others lives. I look forward to meeting you in person.
    How have I fit the writing and reading into my life? Well I'm a TV addict so its 1AM here. And there are still weeds in the garden, and books to read. Thanks to my iPad I read while I'm waiting for car pool or lessons. Tho iPad failed me tonight for this comment and I've had to go to the computer.
    Love the story about your riding. Lovely countryside.

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